It’s
funny the differences in culture from Canada to the United States. If you look
on my Facebook you’ll see a difference between my friends from the United States
and my friends I’ve made abroad. My friends in the States are posting about
their office jobs, husbands, and kids. My friends here in Canada and abroad are
posting about the perks of travelling, photos of their latest adventure, and
where they’re off to next.
I’m
not saying one is better than the other. When I was little I told my mom I
wanted to travel around the world, but I then that idea faded like most
childhood fantasies. Then I grew up and I thought all I wanted was to settle
down and raise a family in a nice little house in the suburbs. But
by accident I changed. I never planned on being on my own, but
last year I set off by myself for the first time just to take a few weeks to
think about the current state of my life and I never went back.
My
mother keeps saying I need to stop and settle down. That I'm Peter Pan. I'm not though. In my previous life I was spoiled and I never did anything on my own including pumping gas or paying a phone bill, not because I have a rich family, but I was sheltered. I'm more grown up, fearless and responsible now than I've been in my entire life. One day when I settle down, I won't have the freedom or the ability to do what I am doing now. And when my last
day and my last breath comes will I regret all the places I never saw, or be
thankful for all the beauty in the world that I did get to see? Option number
two please.
It is
all of this that came into mind on my walk to work today. My mind is a
battlefield of in which on one side I want to be home to give my mommy all the
things I promised when I was 10, such as a stone house by a river and a house
full of grandkids vs. seeing and experiencing the world. Remembering what I've
managed to do in one year though reminds me why I'm just not ready to come home
yet. So here is my year summed up in 20 highlights.
1. Snow tubing
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Mt. Norquay, Alberta |
2. Dog Sledding
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Canmore, Alberta |
3. Walking on rivers and lakes
4. Hockey games!
5. Montreal, Quebec
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It's a spa, on a boat! |
6. Quebec City, Quebec
7. Vancouver, British Columbia
9. Working on a lavender farm and winery
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And learning how to mow the lawn and ride a tractor |
10. Tofino, British Columbia
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Seeing whales, riding on a sea plane AND attempting to surf. |
11. Hiking
12. Drumheller, Alberta
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Where the dinosaurs are |
13. Canoeing
14. Camping
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And got to hang out with horses |
15. Petted wolf dogs
16. Columbia Icefield, Alberta
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And stood on the Athabasca Glacier, and rode in the only snow coaches available anywhere besides Antarctica |
17. Toronto, Ontario
18. Ottawa, Ontario - The capitol of Canada!
19. Niagara Falls, Ontario
20. Went snowboarding